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Wedding Cakes
Wedding cakes have always been one of the important parts of the wedding
ceremony. From the beginning of time, when there were a number of different
traditions tied to the cutting of the wedding cake until today, the cutting of
the cake ceremony is a special one.
There are many beautiful meanings attached to the cutting of the wedding cake
and most of them are carried through the ages from generation to generation
right from early civilizations. In the ancient times, the cake was not cut but
actually broken over the head of the bride, which symbolized fertility for her.
This is still practiced in parts of Russia where they break bread when the
newlyweds enter their new home, to symbolize fruitfulness both in monetary and
physical terms.
Today the cutting of the wedding cake also symbolizes prosperity, but the
ceremony also symbolizes sharing of a new life together. This is why after the
cutting of the cake the groom offers the first piece to his bride (symbolizing
that he will provide for her) and then she will offer him a piece (symbolizing
that she will share her possessions with him). This is a beautiful symbolic
ceremony which reinforced the vows that the newlyweds just took. The cutting of
the cake is usually done as a first common gesture after the couple gets
married. The upper tier of the cake is, in many places, preserved by the couple
to be taken out at their first wedding anniversary. In other places, this is
used at the christening of the first baby – which earlier would be at a date
that was close to the first anniversary. All the traditions are centering on
symbols of a good marriage and sincerity of the vows taken.
The cake is important to other members of the wedding ceremony as well. There
are instances where the wedding cake has tiny charms tied to beautiful color
ribbons embedded in it. These ribbons would be pulled out by the bridesmaids and
according to the charms they pull out, their future will be predicted. This is
great fun for all and makes this ceremony a very entertaining event as well. If
the bridesmaid pulls out a tiny engagement ring, she would be the next to marry;
if the charm is a heart, she will fall in love soon; if it is a four leaves
clover – she will get some great good luck in the near future and so on.
There is another quaint tradition attached to the wedding cake – that is if a
spinster sleeps with a piece under her pillow she will dream of her future
husband. This is the source of great excitement among the unmarried girls –
though no one can confirm the accuracy of such a belief. It is beautiful to
believe and carry forward this sweet tradition, which not only emphasize the
importance of the union, it also adds to the joy of the weeding ceremony.
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